As parents, we’ve all seen it happen. Your child makes a pass, takes a shot, or wins a tackle, and before celebrating or reacting, they quickly glance at you. Their eyes ask the silent question: “Did I do well?”
Children in grassroots football, and in sports in general, often look to their parents for approval. Their confidence, motivation, and love for the game can be deeply influenced by how we react from the sidelines. A simple nod, a smile, or a thumbs-up can boost their confidence, while a frustrated sigh or indifferent expression can have the opposite effect.
Why Do Kids Seek Approval?
Young athletes don’t just play for themselves; they play for their parents, their coaches, and their teammates. They crave positive reinforcement because it helps them understand what they’re doing right and encourages them to keep going. When they feel supported, they are more likely to enjoy the game, take risks, and develop their skills.
How Can Parents Positively Influence Their Child?
- Encourage Effort, Not Just Results – Instead of focusing only on goals or wins, praise their hard work, teamwork, and attitude.
- Stay Positive – Even if they make mistakes, a supportive reaction can help them bounce back and learn.
- Be Present, Not Pressure – Your presence at games means a lot, but your child shouldn’t feel like they have to impress you to gain your approval.
- Let the Coaches Coach – Support from the sidelines is great, but avoid giving technical instructions that might confuse them or add stress.
- Celebrate Small Wins – A good pass, a strong tackle, or even showing good sportsmanship deserves recognition.
The Bigger Picture
At Football Academy APOP Parekklisia, we believe that football is more than just a game; it’s a journey of growth, confidence, and character-building. Parents play a huge role in shaping a child’s experience in sports. Let’s make sure we are sending the right message—one of encouragement, support, and unconditional love.
So next time your child glances at you from the pitch, be ready with a smile, a thumbs-up, or a simple clap. Sometimes, that’s all they need to hear “Yes, you did well, and I’m proud of you.”